...or at least it should be. And I'm not talking about your average quickie. Okay once in a while, but you wouldn't want to make a habit of it. I'm talking about luxurious sex, the kind that begins with a bubble bath appetizer, lingers over a delicious main course... a couple sumptuous side dishes, and ends with sweet nothings whispered in your ear.
It's pretty much the same with food.
Fast food. Wolfed down. Quick punch of intense flavor... salt, sugar, fat. Easy to chew, past the tongue and into the gut before you even know it. You stand there with French fry grease dribbling down your chin wondering, where did my food go? Did I just eat?
Then there's luxurious eating... ever watch a baby eat? They touch, mush, mash, taste, savor and drool. And if it doesn't taste good to her—forget it. She'll spit it on the floor or in your face. And don't try rushing her. She makes a big deal about every meal, taking her sweet time, steadily eating the foods she likes until she's full. Then she stops. Turns her face away from the spoon. Won't take even one more bite.
So try this the next time you're hungry... first of all, shut off the TV. The stereo. Put aside the mail and the newspaper. Tell your eating companion that you're not going to talk during this meal, except to make a few select comments about this marvelous food. It can be as simple as a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, or as elaborate as fillet mignon, but whatever you feed yourself, make sure it's something you love, not something you have to gag down because you know it's good for you... something you'll want to spit on the floor.
Put the food on a plate, then sit down at the table, take a minute to bless it, or if you're not the praying type, take a few deep breaths to calm yourself—then dig in and really enjoy your food. Chew it, taste it, take your time. Experience the flavor, texture, temperature. In other words, tune in. Help yourself to seconds if you're still hungry. Eat until you're comfortably full. Then have a little dessert.
This post is one of a series entitled: "Let's Eat: Befriend you Body and Your Food", posts based on my life as a disordered eater and how I finally found order—got off compulsive dieting, got on normal eating, and reached a place of peace with my body and its natural weight—which is not exactly not thin, not exactly fat—but exactly right—for me.
-Enjoy your food, celebrate your body, and be healthy and happy no matter your size.
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